Godaan terberat

godaan terberat gw adalah ketika gw menemukan bahwa ada banyak cara untuk blogging dan website A,B,C menawarkan berbagai kemudahan blogging yang amat sangat.

paling lama dulu gw pake ini (4years+). terus gw ganti ke sini. sekarang sejak adek gw pake ini, gw jadi tertarik.. kayanya post gambar/video/linknya nampak lebih asyik..

gimana yaaa

ps: tp gw ga pernah tertarik untuk ini (punya sih accountnya, soalnya dulu gw kira itu situs game -__- )

A Good Example

I'm not a big fan of Ahmadinejad. But this article makes me wonder can our mr president do so?

Sell What You Sell, Eat What You Sell

I was going out with my little sister when we decided to had our lunch in one of the pizza bar in our surroundings.

When I sat @ the place, i notice that there's several people -probably colleagues- hanging out together behind my table. Later on, i recognized that one of them is the pizza bar owner because she kept on going in and out of the pantry area.

One thing that made us kinda surprised was that she kept on ordering her employees to re-heat the foods and drinks she bought somewhere else and serve them to her and the colleagues. and definitely not the pizza she sells at the place (which actually tasted OK).

That made me compared her to one of the restaurant owners I know quite well, who always order food from the menu on their own restaurant. I think it's a good business attitude. How can you expect people to eat what you sell, when you yourself not gonna eat it?

Naik Naik Ke Puncak Gunung

No.

gw tidak membicarakan masalah trekking ke gunung A, B, atau C. apalagi ngomongin Puncak. gw lagi ngomongin kenaekan harga di kiri dan kanan, atas dan bawah, depan dan belakang..

bukan sok kritis ya, tapi gw lagi gondooook setengah mati.

tarif dasar listrik kan naek tuh, tapi yang namanya mati lampu kayanya jalan terus. ga ya gw di rumah, ga ya gw di kantor, terakhir gw di rumah sakit.. ga kebayang deh gw nanti lagi di ruang operasi mati lampu. naudzubillahimindzaliiiikkkkk...

i think it's fair enough to think that if prices rise, it should come with better condition; minimal sih bs memperbaiki hal2 yang kurang. jadi yang bayar juga ga merasa dikerjain.

gw tau kadang pemakaian listrik orang suka lebay, tapi ga juga mati lampunya continues dooong..

ah tau ah gelap. byar pet.

Punk'd

Last night my sister screamed out that her class money (she's the treasury) went missing. 1,3 million rupiahs just disappeared from her bag. from a 5th grader bag.

I asked her to sit and calm down. She gave me the whole flow about what happen today

Sister: The teacher checked the money, she then asked me to put it in my bag. asked me to be careful since it's a lot of money

Me: What the hell? why do you have to bring it around with you?

Sister: Im not! its just yesterday she asked me to bring all the money

Me: who saw you bring the money?

Sister: xx,yy,zz (named 3 friends)

Me: arent zz is the one that you gave prank on her birthday? the one u set up as a thief to give the whole surprize?

Sister: i wasnt playing pranks with her! its one of the It Girl in my class who got the plan...

Mom: Later, do not join the pranks even if your besties asked you too. i think this time you got the prank. tomorrow's your birthday right? even the teacher sms me and said she didnt hold the money and we should wait till tomorrow.

Me: The teacher is impossible to join the joke right?

Sister: she loves to do prank

Dad: lets pay revenge :) sms the teacher that we gonna report to the police about the money.

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as what expected it is a prank. The teacher went freaked out and tell the truth. She's even a part of the whole silly joke.

Knowing it, I kinda feel sad. I can assume to 2 points:

1. teacher who supposed to make the kid feel secure is making the kid insecure. Cant blame her if the kid wont trust her anymore
2. kid's jokes lately are very very annoying and silly. playing around with money and stuff. who knows what happened if the kid being set up was stressed and freaked out. Blame the TV? or should we blame our whole ignorance towards them?

bday surprise was supposed to be all nice right?

all i know, my sister has made herself promise that she wont do anymore prank, to anyone.

Show Off or Complaining?

I have this friend.

Know her since ages ago.

Know every single her ups and downs.

I saw her as a one lucky person. Breaking off, finding new love, got married, and now pregnant.

and all she do now was saying how proud she is living on her own, far from parents and how people who still live with parents (look at me) are never as tired and as dedicated as her.

I dont know it's showing off or it's complaining.

All i know, it's annoying.

saya benci jadi perempuan by Meilani Fauziah

this is a note from Facebook. My friend tagged me and i think it's great :)
*english translation.. later, when im not so-called-busy*

saya benci jadi perempuan.
di saat para lelaki tinggal ongkang-ongkang kaki karena sarapan sudah disediakan, saya masih harus mengolesi roti saya sendiri (dan roti mereka), menjerang air panas untuk teh manis saya (dan teh mereka).

saya benci jadi perempuan.
di saat para lelaki masih tertidur pulas karena sudah pesan ini-itu agar dibangunkan jam 5 pagi,, saya harus setel alarm sendiri. usaha sendiri. tak terdengar? bangun kesiangan? siapa yang peduli ?

saya benci jadi perempuan.
di saat para lelaki tak perlu masak ini-itu untuk makan pagi-siang-malem.. saya? tak masak, tak makan.
sialan.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
di saat Bunda bela-belain nabung buat biaya S2. S3 (dan Es-eS lainnya) untuk para lelaki, saya harus puas dengan gelar S1. " Kan kamu perempuan.. Nanti aja minta sama suami. "

saya benci jadi perempuan.
apalagi di sinetron. yang entah kenapa selalu menyajikan PEREMPUAN CANTIK TAPI IDIOT UDAH GITU CENGENG PULA jadi pemeran utama. sinting.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
di saat para lelaki dimaklumi karena hanya bisa melakukan satu hal di saat bersamaan, perempuan di tuntut multitasking. ini sangat keren, kawan..

saya benci jadi perempuan.
karena harus melahirkan. kalo anaknya nanti soleh dan baik budi,, kalo durhaka.. yang dibilang : siapa sih ibunya? setan.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
perempuan cantik.. yang mulutnya seperti kebun binatang. kata-kata "bangsat", "keparat", "bajingan". sumpah, ini tidak terdengar bagus keluar dari mulut perempuan.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
karena bisa melahirkan para laki-laki yang bisa bikin saya patah hati.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
perempuan sinetron.. sudah saya bilang yah? hihihi...

saya benci jadi perempuan.
yang mengaku sundel bolong, yang meninggal pas lagi menstruasi, yang mati bego di ranjang, yang diperkosa pocong, dan perawan yang gantung diri pake ikat kuntilanak. emang gak pantes idup kali.

saya benci jadi perempuan.
yang kalo si pacar (laki-laki abnormal) berani maen tampar-tamparan, dia MASIH BISA BILANG "Tapi aku sayang sama dia.. namanya juga khilaf. " TOLOL.

aah,
saya benci jadi perempuan.. untuk beberapa hal.
tapi saya mencintai menjadi perempuan.. untuk begitu banyak hal. amat teramat banyak hal. tak terhitung. apalagi dengan " kecrekan yang saya pakai selagi TK untuk matematika sederhana 1 + 2 = 3. "



^ Selamat hari Kartini, perempuan! ^

distance is a good measurement

i always realize that i love my family.

but, in those times when we are close to each other, days were like just passing by.

distance, is a good measurement about how much you love them. you;ll end up realize you love them more than you thought.

my brother stays in NZ, and my sis stays outside of town. i often miss them. and when i stay out of town, i get to miss my littlest sister and my folks. i even always miss my husband when he's off to college and work.

yesterday i got the chance to spend the whole day with my sister. very fun. and i really enjoyed it.

i now longing for the day hubby will come home from his job out of the country. im going to hug him real tight he cant even breath.

Politisi Kecil

Berita di Metro TV menayangkan si pencuri pisang yang dihukum bertahun-tahun. Gw yang saat itu lagi berdua adek gw yang masih kelas 5 SD cuma bisa mendesah sedih. I'm living in a very cruel world.

Adek gw yang ga bisa menahan kegondokannya, langsung memaki dengan serius. I mean, VERY SERIOUS.

Nenek-nenek nyuri Kakao masuk penjara, nyuri pisang dihukum bertahun-tahun, ekstasi kebawa dikurung 4 tahun.. Anggoro+Anggodo malah berkeliaran! Nasabah Bank Century ga dibalikin duitnya! Negara macam apa sih?!

I am so amazed with her.

PS: by the time I wrote this, my -now living in Auckland- Brother is calling to ask my favor to sms him our home address. buset alamat rumah sendiri lupa.

Which One?

Am I...

an annoying crybaby,

or

something should be handle with care?

ambiguous.

In A Rush

I started to think of how my life will goes later...

and I started to understand.

Right now, I need to chop my body in 3 pieces.

1 for me, 1 for my work, 1 for my family (which consists of his and mine)

anyway, I'm enjoying it :)

Pampering Myself: A Big Wish

Within these hectic moments and activities, a nice pedicure + manicure, soothing lulur, relaxing reflexy (whether @ the beauty salon/ @ home) or even a simple moments like reading and watching movies together would be something considered grace.

I think I should have some moments that way, just so I stay sane :)

PS: Does shopping for seserahan/pulangan considered pampering myself too? It's kinda fun to pick and choose stuffs :) shop is considered as girl's heaven right? but seeing seserahan list was somewhat shocking. Maybe I'm not the type of a person who ask for something so much. Dad's teaching: giving is better than asking. You give people something, God will give you more. And etc :P

Actually I like to shop, especially shopping for books! But I need to save money and such for the pre and post wedding, so probably I need to hide my credit card, atm card and money somewhere else :P

An Nisa 19 and Us

وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا

"and treat them kindly; then if you hate them, it may be that you dislike a thing while Allah has placed abundant good in it." (An-Nisa`: 19)

“ Dan bergaullah kalian dengan mereka secara patut. Kemudian bila kalian tidak menyukai mereka maka bersabarlah karena mungkin kalian tidak menyukai sesuatu padahal Allah menjadikan padanya kebaikan yang banyak.” (An-Nisa`: 19)

I am a very sensitive person, especially to people I'm comfortable the most. I might be very strong, very tough for other person. But not to the person that I can rely my self to. I'm such a crybaby. I'm such a person who wants to be spoiled. Maybe because people around me wants me to be their wonderwall, their place to lean on. So, when I found Abang, I feel like I'm the one who s'posed to lean on him.

But I forgot how he has a very hard role in his life.. Has to be a brother, a father, even sometimes the mother when he's in charge at home. I forgot maybe he's tired and wants to lean on me and wants me to understand him, not just me who wants him to understand.

I'm too comfortable with him, I forgot to ask how he felt about me clinging around him and being so dependence on him.

And I feel very guilty... Would you please forgive me? :')

Yesterday, we have this heart to heart talk. Like I said before, marriage preparation makes things a bit more sensitive than they used to.

So, we both are going to try to reduce our minuses and try to understand each other better. We both are going to try to accept each other the way we are, even more than before.

Like the Qur'an verse I posted above, the point is, we might have things we don't really like from each other. But we remember that there's a lot of things we love from each other.

Things that I can't do and he can do, or he can't do and I can do; it makes us complete. That make us stick to each other even when we're very far. That we passed through and will be passed. Like our prayers to each other. Like our dreams we share and our adventure we try to pursue. Like how much he protect me and showers me with love and care. Like how much I love him and his families as much as I love mine. Like how I always wanting him to be happy, and how he always wanting me to be alright and not even sick at all.

There's still a lot more things from us; from each other; which we thank God have given to us.

I think we are going to survive and has this story being lived up to the fullest. Somehow, I am more convince than ever to walk my life with you.

The Power of Istirja

This whole 2 weeks has consumed most of my energy because I gotta take care of this matter. Today, I have some terrible-terrible-terrible problems. I was exploding. Like a bomb with timer. And after that, I can only do Istirja (Innalillahi wa inna illaihi roji'un. Saying people often thought as saying that is only spoken when someone's dead)..

The reason why I often said Istirja is because I believe all the bad things happen, happen for a good reason. My folks @ home also taught me since I was a child, that when I said Istirja, I'd have a good replacement for the bad things that happened.

Like always, today it's proven too. yihaaaa!

I have a new handphone from the office hahhahaha,,,,

and my Abang is veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy supportive and calming :D

yuuuhuuuuu!

God is goood!

I Promise I Won't Complain

I promise I won't complain, even though

my friends are

moving to Japan

studying something I really love

working the job I've always wanted

not considering me as cool

my beloved people

are not perfect

wanting me to fulfill their expectations

my works

make people think I have no life

consumes my me-time

my colleagues

freak out coz they think I'm no help

think I don't have to work hard, I will heritage anyway

believe I can't work

my besties are

seem to drifting away

having fun

my future is planned, before I knew I can actually plan my future

my self is not as stunning as other people

I am thankful of my life anyway. I just love it, no matter how strange it is. I think I'm lucky.